PERCEPTION and
ATTITUDES
Sexual Relation
The taboo on sex outside marriage and pregnancy:
Children's curiosity about sexuality emerges very early and is part of healthy physical
and mental development. However, due to the taboo on sexuality in conservative
societies, children are often not provided with child development and age-appropriate
education that provides accurate and safe information to satisfy their curiosity. In
addition, children living in one-room houses or temporary settlements with their parents
or other adults due to poverty and deprivation may witness the sexual behaviour of
adults, and this experience may even become traumatic for them. The fact that sexual
intercourse and pregnancy without the bonds of marriage or without marriage are seen
as a taboo, not accepted, resulting in stigmatisation, exclusion, neglect and violence due
to reasons such as being excluded from the society, being shamed, being the subject of
gossip, losing the support of the extended family, going against religious teachings, etc.
is also a proof that children and women do not have a say over their own bodies and
lives. This attitude also leads to the marriage of girls who have sexual intercourse or
become pregnant as a result of this intercourse. Girls who engage in sexual activity are
probably afraid that their family will learn about it. This fear may also result in the girl
wanting to marry the partner as quick as possible.
Abduction / Elopement
There have been cases of abduction of women since ancient times and it is even a
‘tradition’ in countries such as Kazakhstan and Kyrgyzstan. There is a significant
difference between abduction and elopement. A relationship that the family does not
approve and will not allow marriage may cause elopement, or the man abducts the
woman he wants to marry and forces her into marriage. In both cases, since the
woman/girl child will be away from home, families may feel obliged to approve the
marriage with the thought that she may have ‘lost her virginity’ by having sexual
intercourse during this period.[26]
[26] Flying Broom Association, Child, Early and Forced Marriages Typology (2024)
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